10.23.2011

Beautiful Patriotism

I love this article, and whole-heartedly agree with it. You might not relate to it as much as I do and I know it is long, but it is well worth your time. Embrace it. That's all the words I have to say at the moment.


Members Serving in the Military

Military service is often a time of personal growth, but some enlisted members find it challenging to maintain spirituality and contact with the Church. To find out more about strengthening members in the military, the Ensign spoke with Paul Jensen, a retired U.S. Air Force colonel who serves as the Church’s military relations liaison.
Question: Is it a good idea for young people to serve in the military?
Response: In today’s world, some Latter-day Saints shy away from voluntary military service because of perceived low moral standards. But leaving home for college or work can also put youth into a challenging moral environment, with similar pressures and temptations. If young people are not valiant, faithful, and true to their covenants, they’re going to have the same problems at college or work as they would in the military.
Some nations have involuntary conscription into the military, such as Norway, Korea, and Taiwan. Other nations draft citizens into military service during times of need. As Latter-day Saints, we accept these obligations. We believe in honoring and sustaining the laws of our nations, regardless of where we live.
President James E. Faust, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, said: “One of the highest duties of citizenship is to defend one’s country. This is because in wartime military service often demands the ultimate sacrifice—life itself.” He continued: “I served for three years in World War II. During most of that time I was married and was separated from my wife for a considerable period. I was drafted and served because it was the law of the land. I was no hero, but I believe I did the right thing” (“The Integrity of Obeying the Law,” in Vital Speeches of the Day [1 Sept. 1995], 687).
Q: What helps military personnel stay strong in the Church?
R: Local leaders and home teachers can help prepare young people who will be leaving soon for military enlistment. They can help recruits understand how to keep up their standards, teach others about the gospel, and hold on to the Church as an anchor in the storm. For many young people, military service leads to activation and conversion as they mature in the face of difficult circumstances and set good examples for those around them. When young people who have been less active in their home wards are warmly greeted by their Church leaders and peers at military posts, many take advantage of the opportunity to start over again in the Church and subsequently serve full-time missions.
Following are some practical suggestions for Latter-day Saints serving in the armed forces:
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    Pray regularly. Study the scriptures daily. Ponder and meditate.
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    Live righteously and be worthy of the Lord’s Spirit and protection.
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    Avoid the very appearance of evil.
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    Stay in contact with your family.
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    Find the Church immediately upon reassignment. Before you enlist, ask your bishop to help you locate the ward or branch that serves your military installation. You may also check the phone directory or inquire at the installation chaplain’s office. There is almost always a ward, branch, or group anywhere you will be stationed or deployed on land or sea.
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    Be active in your ward, branch, or group. The Church is like a home away from home.
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    Take advantage of your missionary opportunities.
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    Wear the uniform with dignity. Bring honor to yourself and the Church which you represent.
Q: Does military service provide opportunities to influence others for good?
R: President Thomas S. Monson, First Counselor in the First Presidency, said: “Our men and women in uniform have influenced thousands for good. How do they accomplish this? They live the commandments of God and teach to others His divine word. They are prepared to give a reason for the hope that is within them. They are sufficiently acquainted with the doctrines of the Church so that they can touch the heart of an inquiring friend. I pay tribute to them. I honor them. I salute them.”
The opportunities for baptisms, retention, and activation in the military are phenomenal. If a young person who is living the gospel and is friendly and accepts others as sons and daughters of God makes any effort at all—such as inviting others to Church activities, dances, and institute classes—those whom the Lord has prepared will respond. One of the major U.S. Army basic training stations is in Fort Jackson, South Carolina. Last year more than 130 people joined the Church there, more than in some missions. I visited that branch recently, and I watched as local members who had been called as leaders in that military branch personally shook the hands of more than 180 young people who arrived on four buses to attend church. The Sunday I was there, full-time missionaries gave 38 first discussions, and I witnessed six baptisms. If these converts and activated members are retained properly at their next duty station, the momentum continues to build and they friendship and fellowship others.
As members of the Church, we have deeply rooted foundations in serving our nations and protecting our religious freedoms and our right to worship according to the dictates of our consciences. When a person puts on a uniform and pursues a just cause in a military situation, he or she is in essence protecting the freedom of agency. Captain Moroni and Helaman are great examples of men who wore the uniforms of their nations—whether literally or figuratively—with dignity and nobleness of purpose. It may not be everybody’s role or responsibility to serve in the military, but it is everybody’s responsibility to support those who do. They deserve our recognition, our honor, and our gratitude.

9.17.2011

Queen Bees, Wannabes, and Gamma Girls

I am currently reading Sean Covey's The 6 Most Important Decisions You'll Ever Make. I find it quite invigorating, it's like a breath of fresh air. The following is an excerpt from this wonderful book:

       "In a classic Newsweek article, Susannah Meadows analyzes Queen Bees & Wannabes, a book by Rosalind Wiseman that takes a look at popularity and fitting in. Wiseman writes about three groups of high-school girls she's studied. She calls them the Alphas, Betas, and a group not always highlighted, the Gammas. (By the way, Alpha, Beta, and Gamma are simply the names for the first three letters of the Greek alphabet.)
       The Alphas are the Queen Bees, the ones to whom popularity means everything. The Queen Bees protect their clique at all costs and will boot out anyone who tries to threaten their reign. The Betas are known as the Wannabees. They will do whatever it takes to get in good with the Queen Bees. 
       The Queen Bees and Wannabes are so caught up in the lure of popularity and staying there, they don't realize that another group has one up on them. Wiseman calls them the Gamma Girls-kids who may not be known as the most popular, but they're definitely not losers. Quite the opposite. They're girls who are comfortable in their own skins. They're not mean. They like their parents. They're smart. And they think popularity is overrated.
       Gamma Girls are involved in a variety of school, church, and social activities, and play competitive sports. Gammas were often picked on or made fun of before and because of it have developed independence and self-confidence. They have strong values, enjoy being with their families, and [are careful of who they date.] Alphas and Betas look out! The Gammas are here to stay.
If you're tired of playing the Queen Bee and Wannnabe game, be a Gamma Girl."

This is one of the best things I have ever read, most likely because I am quite partial to Gamma Girls, considering I see myself as one. In high school it is often hard to see the world the way it really is, perhaps because our paradigms are so close-minded. I would esteem self worth of high importance. Whether you think you can be something or not, you are right. Always be your authentic self, and if that brings you popularity, that is fine. It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice! Be your best self, never compromise your true authentic personality. G for life.

9.11.2011

7 facts to success inspired by Hannah Broach

Facts about smiling #1: Forcing yourself to smile can boost your mood: Psychologists have found that even if you're in a bad mood, you can instantly lift your spirits by forcing yourself to smile.
Facts about smiling #2: It boosts your immune system: Smiling really can improve your physical health, too. Your body is more relaxed when you smile, which contributes to good health and a stronger immune system.
Facts about smiling #3: Smiles are contagious: It's not just a saying, smiling really is contagious, scientists say. In a study conducted in Sweden, people had difficulty frowning when they looked at other subjects who were smiling, and their muscles twitched into smiles all on their own.
Facts about smiling #4: Smiles relieve stress: Your body immediately releases endorphins when you smile, even when you force it. This sudden change in mood will help you feel better and relieve stress.
Facts about smiling #5: It's easier to smile than to frown: Scientists have discovered that your body has to work harder and use more muscles to frown than it does to smile.
Facts about smiling #6: It's a universal sign of happiness: While handshakes, hugs, and bows all have various meanings across cultures, smiling is known around the world and in all cultures as a sign of peace and acceptance.
Facts about smiling #7: We still smile at work: While we smile less at work (or school) than we do at home, 30% percent of subjects in a research study smiled 5 to 20 times a day, and 28% smiled over 20 times per day at the office.
        After reading this research, it is made manifest that smiling indeed makes life better in every aspect. Your smile could be just the thing a friend (or random stranger) needs to brighten their day. You're never fully dressed without a smile. So don't embarrass yourself, just smile :)

9.03.2011

Feast on the Word

Isn't it ironic how the girl who swore she'd never have a blog just created one? Yep. I decided my first post is going to be on just a few of my favorite scriptures :)


John 14:27 "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." I love this scripture. The world tries to offer peace, but the only true peace we can find is through the gospel of Jesus Christ. Last night I saw Kung Fu Panda 2, and I observed that he defeats his enemies only through finding inner peace. The Lord will give that peace, all you have to do is turn to him.

Mosiah 2:41 "And moreover, I would desire that ye should consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God. For behold, they are blessed in all things, both temporal and spiritual; and if they hold out faithful to the end they are received into heaven, that thereby they may dwell with God in a state of never ending happiness. O remember, remember that these things are true; for the Lord God hath spoken it." This scripture I found in my own study a while ago. It teaches me that the way to happiness is keeping the commandments. They can be hard to obey sometimes, but in all honesty they enable us to be free. Free from addiction, free from bondage, sin, and misery. The commandments may seem limiting, but they are the opposite. They truly bring happiness and freedom. I connect this scripture to the one that says, "Wickedness never was happiness." I know when I make wrong choices in the end it always brings me sorrow. Likewise, righteousness always was happiness.

1 Corinthians 10:13 "There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. " In seminary once we interchanged the word "temptation" with "trial." All the trials we have are specific for us given to us in the way that will help us most to grow, and to also help us be thankful for the good things in our life. There will always be a way to overcome every single trial we endure. Faith in Christ is key as well as trust in the Lord that he will deliver us from the bondage of our own sins and trials.

What sparked the idea and motivation to begin a blog? First, my best friend Ashley Beth Billings. Second, a quote I found in my scriptures I got in a Laurels lesson this summer: "[There is] a marvelous phenomenon which occurs among men when the light of the gospel illuminates their lives. Almost instinctively, it seems, the light of truth sparks a desire to share. When our minds are expanded by new knowledge, we want others to know; when our spirits are elevated by heavenly influence, we want others to feel; and when our lives are filled with goodness, we want others particularly those whom we love, to enjoy similar experiences." I have a strong testimony of the scriptures, and when I put a few of my favorite all together I had the burning desire to share! Now my thoughts are on the Internet for all the world to read. If that isn't sharing I don't know what is. I love expressing myself through writing, which is why I keep a journal of my personal life, it doesn't need to be on the Internet :) I definitely recommend keeping a journal, it has so many benefits! One of the main ones being a good laugh a few years down the road. Have you been edified by reading this post? Yeah..me too :)